When Self Bondage Gets Boring.

Tainted Innocence By Tainted Innocence, 16th Oct 2010 | Follow this author | RSS Feed | Short URL http://nut.bz/1qq7u85g/
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If you have come to the stage in your life when self bondage starts to get boing then you need your self bondage sessions to give you more satisfaction.

When Self Bondage Gets Boring

If you are finding that your self bondage sessions are getting boring then you need to work out a way to get the spark back again.

If you just use handcuffs/wristcuffs then maybe you should learn how to use rope in your self bondage sessions, there are a few great sites that has to information you need and if you are the sort of person who needs pictures or/and shown how to do then you can use youtube. Just remember that instead of a key for self bondage you need a pair of strong scissors, be careful.

Maybe you just need a different position when tying yourself up, look around on the internet you are bound to find positions that you have never done before.

If you have tried that then you should try and have something completely different, if your usual self bondage sessions are based around not being able to orgasm then you could add a vibrator to a self bondage session (I would suggest a vibrator that turns itself on and off randomly). If your self bondage involves nipple clamps then you could change the clamps to vibrating nipple clamps to add more pleasure.

If you have fantasies then you could try and add bits from them to your self bondage, if you have a fantasy about enemas then try and add it somehow, all you need is to be creative (please not add dangerous acts to your self bondage as some fantasies should stay fantasies).

However there is only so much you can do with self bondage but not to fear because this is not the end of your bondage journey. This step can be a big step for most people of different reasons but the only way to continue is to get involved with someone else.

The most important thing when doing bondage with someone is to be completely honest with them, this is the only way to have the most satisfaction. So when you two have a chat with what you have done and what you haven’t, don’t say you have done something you haven’t just to impress them, the whole point of doing it with someone else is to have fun.

Most people have this image that a mistress/master is someone who is mean and heartless, but they are human and they truly care about you. Unlike self bondage, bondage is a two way thing and who knows you may create a long lasting relationship with them.

If you want to start looking I would suggest doing it on good and secure sites, the site would recommend is fetlife. Fetlife is a large social networking site based around fetishes (the biggest fetishes are bdsm based) you don’t have to start looking for a bondage partner straight away, you can just talk, make friends and learn and show on the forums.

Hope you found this useful.

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Bdsm, Bondage, Fantasies, Fetlife, Handcuffs, Orgasm, Position, Rope, Self, Vibrator, Wristcuffs

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author avatar Tainted Innocence
Hey there, I'm Angus and I like writing, drawing and music. I will mostly be writing about my favourite hobby, self bondage. At the moment I am trying to focus on my blog "The Green Peps".

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author avatar Melissa Dawn
18th May 2011 (#)

oh my god this is hilarious. I'm not sure this is the sort of thing Wikinut should be promoting but thanks for the chuckle

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