Does he like me?

Matt Janak By Matt Janak, 18th May 2013 | Follow this author | RSS Feed
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How can you tell if he's into you? Here are five ways to know for sure.

Does he like me?

Seems everyone is putting out lists these days about how to tell if a guy is into you. So, I have put together my own list for all you women out there.


By Matt Janak

1) He asks you out on a date, and then shows up.

Most guys will tell you they would like to take you out, and often times they do such things as make plans and clear their schedule to do so. This is a sure fire sign he likes you. "I once asked this woman out from the grocery store," says Greg, 28, "and then we went out later that week."

2) After the first date, he calls you to set up a second date.

This is probably the best way to determine if he is into you. A lot of guys will in fact ask for the second date if they enjoyed themselves on the first one. " We really hit it off when we went out for the first time, so I asked her out again the next night." Explains Tom, 21.

3)When the second date is over, he asks for a third and fourth date.

Experts say this is the way most men nowadays proceed when they enjoy the company of a particular woman. Dr. Toppenbottom of University State College has done multiple studies on the subject, and has found the following: "What we have seen in the last few years is a tendency to ask for future dates if the first few were enjoyable for both parties."

4) He asks you to marry him after dating for a length of time.

Over the last few decades in America the statistics have shown that the majority of women getting married in recent years have dated the men for months or even years prior to the engagement. That was the case for Kate, 34. "We dated for about a year and a half before he asked me to marry him, and then I had a feeling he was into me."

5) He actually goes through with the marriage and bears children with you.

Most anecdotal evidence leads people to believe that when a man actually marries a woman and later has children with her, this is a good indicator of him being "in" to her. So says Maria and Donald, both 43. "We dated for a couple years, got married, and had 3 children." says Maria. "After about 6 years I thought to myself, maybe he is into me." Donald adds, " I'm into her."


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author avatar Matt Janak
Army veteran, living in Texas, former aspiring comedian, current husband and step-father, lover of Star Wars, and hater of spider flatulence. My profile pic is from my book, Dark Part of the Mind.

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author avatar LOVERME
18th May 2013 (#)

nice post but nowadays we all know that women never stick to a guy for very long some want v......
read my being posted

of sexuality and mental compatibility

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author avatar Mystic Maid
10th Jun 2013 (#)

Very cute!!! A very good "tell".

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